Believe in Yourself
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Don’t Let Self-Limiting Beliefs Sabotage your Relationship Status
Self-limiting beliefs? What the? I know, it sounds like psycho babble and yes, it is, but as a relationship expert and former therapist, this is a very real phenomenon that I encounter with both my male and female clients.
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There are No Such Things As Ghosts
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Nobody deserves to be ignored, but were you really in a relationship this whole time?
So, I’m guessing you’ve heard all about the Charlize Theron and Sean Penn “ghosting” debacle. (For those of you who might not have heard this term before, “ghosting” is one partner ends a romantic relationship by completely severing all communications with the other person.)
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How to Be a Better Date in 2016!
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So, here’s the rub. I represent men for matchmaking and I relationship-mentor women. Everyday, women share examples of how (some) men sabotage potential relationships with negative behaviors. Some negative behaviors are more common than others… I suspect, you would never engage in self sabotaging negative behaviors, but just in case, let me cover the behaviors which will ensure your dating success in 2016.
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Why Did He Disappear After Our Third Date?
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Let’s face it, dating can be discouraging … especially when the men you go out with all seem to disappear after two or three dates. Fortunately, help is on the way. “Please keep in mind,” says Julianne, “three dates does not a relationship make. Now, I know that you feel that you’ve invested yourself here, and you probably have, but keep in mind that he’s dating you and probably others as well.
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Start Dating Like a Big Boy
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We all need chemistry—that’s a given when it comes to inti- mate romantic relationships. I would be lying if I said that attraction doesn’t matter, but that said, is the fantasy of what she should be out- weighing the reality of being loved?
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Dating Someone New This Holiday Season?
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It can be tricky to navigate your way through the holidays if you’re in the early stages of dating. Check out these guidelines. There’s no need to make things awkward! Defining the relationship is a big step in the dating process. The holiday season can get a little more complicated if you haven’t had “the talk”. Typically, this conversation about exclusivity comes a few months into the relationship.
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The 10 Commandments of Online Dating
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It doesn’t sound romantic, but you need to market yourself effectively. Memorize these commandments and you will be well on your way to landing a date. I love online dating! You read that right. I love dating and I think it’s a fabulous way to find a relationship. Surprised? Most people are, but then I explained how 20% of relationships today start online.
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Clean Breaks: Four Steps to a Better Breakup
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Breakups can be difficult, even if you were the one initiating the end. If you weren’t the one who initiated, then you know it can be especially painful. During my time as a grief counselor, I can tell you that grieving has no time limit. There is always a grieving period after the breakup—even if you wanted it. Some men find themselves mourning the loss of what could have been, or playing out the relationship over and over in their minds.
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Spring Fever: Four Ways to Turn Up the Heat in Your Relationship
By Julianne
After this winter, I am sure you are ready to welcome spring. I bet many of you have already packed up those heavy sweaters, long pants and boots and have made room for a more carefree time. It’s easy to notice the difference in each of us as spring approaches. Many of us experience restlessness or an excitement as temperatures begin to climb and we welcome longer days filled with sunshine and cool breezes.
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Want More Sex? 5 Secrets to Guarantee Your Pleasure
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You might be wondering why I would want to ensure your sexual success. Well, it’s pretty simple. It’s my business. Now, don’t get all excited. I’m not a sex surrogate or sex therapist; I am a relationship ex-ert. I am also a woman, and I know first hand what it takes to make a woman want to have sex with you often, freely and without inhibitions. I have worked with countless men over the years and counseled them on this exact topic.
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Are You Playing the Blame Game?
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Are your ready to be vulnerable and let love in? Perhaps you have spent the last few years keeping love at bay. You’ve carefully mastered the art of blaming everyone else for your single status and not taken responsibility for your own thoughts and actions. You’ve strategically convinced yourself that 1) there are no good men/women out there...
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